What if they're not acting on their attraction? He mocks them, yells at them, and would love to see the conservative church simply fade out of existence. I've introduced you to Dan, Maddie, Justin, Jordan, Lesli, and Eric because there's something we really need to agree on up front. Your writing gives insight into a very deep struggle and a world that is often confusing to many. As these examples illustrate, it is practically impossible to live comfortably with a black-and-white picture of a world containing many shades of gray. My point is to be very careful about using these terms and to make sure you don't cause people to feel like some less-than-human "other.". I think the church is doing our teens a great disservice by not addressing this topic, with the exact balance of truth and love that Preston Sprinkle displays, as early as the beginning of adolescence. I have read many books and articles on this debate from both sides, but this one is perhaps the most grace-soaked book written by a conservative Christian that I have ever encountered. Sometimes it's inevitable to use the words "us" or "them." It really comes across in this book as in everything he does. Amazon has encountered an error. [London: Butterworths. While this isnt a book about the gospel, its impossible to orient people to a difficult topic like homosexuality without being very clear on the good news, and the claims, of the gospel of Jesus. You may wonder, "Isn't that person just a lesbian?" I didn't understand it; I didn't know how to broach the topic with other people, yet alone homosexual people or Christian homosexuals. I tend to just use LGBT or sometimes LGBTQ. We'll talk more about the term, in chapters 6 and 7. Sometimes it's inevitable to use the words "us" or "them." This mindset has to change. Yet another thing? He grew up a lot like Justin, but Jordan believes that acting on homosexual desires is a sin. Living in a Gray World explores with readers: Homosexuality and other related issues, such as what it means to identify as transgender and intersexWhat the Bible says about homosexualityHow to cultivate a heart for people Dr. Sprinkle shares biblical truth and compassion about this important topic. Throughout our conversation, you and I are going to ask some hard questions and sort through some tough debates. Reviewed in the United Kingdom on May 4, 2019, Preston Sprinkle is someone who writes and speaks with deep love and authenticity. This seems weird until you hear her story. Sometimes it's inevitable to use the words "us" or "them." Includes initial monthly payment and selected options. It's recommended for teens age 15 and up, but I would actually recommend it for mature younger teens as well. ask them what they mean by homosexuality before you answer. Unfortunately, many gay and lesbians feel like this whenever they hear Christians talk about "those gay people" or other such "they/them"-type words. Bring God into your life and avoid being a man just "existing" in this world. Full content visible, double tap to read brief content. The line between homosexual. He dealt more with the questions concerning what it means to be transgendered, transexual, or intersex which I appreciated, and was pretty fair and balanced in addressing a number of questions that many of our teens will face and ask themselves as they grow. What if someone is only slightly gay? Most people tack on a Q for "Queer" (or "Questioning") at the end LGBTQ. Reviewed in the United States on March 22, 2021. This is one of the best books on this topic. I'm glad you asked these good questions. Let's have a cordial conversation. My hope is that hearing their stories will help us "put flesh" on the topic of homosexuality. People who have been raped into lesbianism, and people who have been born with same-sex attraction. It looks like WhatsApp is not installed on your phone. Living in a Gray World: A Christian Teen's Guide to Understanding Homosexuality Edicin Kindle de Zondervan,(Author), Preston Sprinkle (Illustrator) Visita la pgina de Amazon Preston Sprinkle Encuentra todos los libros, lee sobre el autor y ms. Lifestyle?! The story of my experience placing this book on hold at my library illustrates the exact reason why I believe this book is so vitally needed in our society. I am hopeful that this book is accepted by a teenager who is on the brink of questioning these things because of peer influence. I'm gay." A feisty, angry, church-hating loudmouth who loves to fire off mean comments on blogs and Twitter. Everything is explained so clearly and the author does a great job of having a relatable conversation so as not to come across harsh. They prefer to be called gay or lesbian. A professor with multiple books about interpreting the Bible, including People to be Loved: Why Homosexuality is Not Just an Issue, Sprinkle attempts to explain what the Bible says about homosexuality to teens: teens who are questioning, inquisitive straight teens, and with declarations to parents of the Christian faith. He breaks apart myths and assumptions on both sides of the topic. Stories that make them sing, and stories that make them shudder with cold sweat. They all have a unique set of experiences, joys and fears, things they hate and love, things that make them smile and other things that make them crazy mad. PDF download. However, he gives context to this sin by noting that ALL people, especially all Christians engage in sin (lust, adultery, greed, slander, etc.) He had spent several years wrestling with his same-sex attraction, though his commitment to the Bible prevented him from acting on it. But we need to be very clear about what we mean. I struggle with same-sex attraction. In case you're wondering, Jordan got through that frightful evening with the leaders at his church. So whether you are gay or straight or somewhere in between, you have a unique story. And they have stories. , Simultaneous device usage R. What do you mean? I would have felt the same way if I had been checking out a book on teens having sex and the librarian questioned me on it and put it under my 12 year old sons name. Jordan is one of the most amazing Christians I've ever met. But as we'll see, the discussion about homosexuality is much more complex than just a conversation about sex. This book was written for teen readers 15 years ago and older, but I think many adults can benefit from reading this book. We work hard to protect your security and privacy. Or committed suicide. Yes, a big old stone will probably break your bones, but words have the power to crush your heart. He mocks them, yells at them, and would love to see the conservative church simply fade out of existence. He had spent several years wrestling with his same-sex attraction, though his commitment to the Bible prevented him from acting on it. I'm going to converse with you through these pages as if we're hanging out at a coffee shop together. Prestonis also the founder andpresident ofthe Center for Faith, Sexuality, and Gender. Instead, the Bible gives Christians the liberty to make God-glorifying decisions based on their convictions. So whether you are gay or straight or somewhere in between, you have a unique story. What Are Some Examples of Gray Areas? Or you could use the well-known acronym LGBT. I'm not a Christian but I like reading what Christians and others have to say about the subject of homosexuality, so I was interested to read this book. Living in a Gray World. : and many more titles. Your writing gives insight into a very deep struggle and a world that is often confusing to many. Biologically, Lesli is female. You can return the item for any reason in new and unused condition: no shipping charges. Some questions have simple answers, but many don't. What I'm about to say will be foundational to everything I write in this book. Are we talking about people having sex with someone of the same gender? A feisty, angry, church-hating loudmouth who loves to fire off mean comments on blogs and Twitter. , Screen Reader Living in a material world: object biography and transnational lives (PDF, 1.6MB) - Karen Schamberger, Martha Sear, Kirsten Wehner, Jennifer Wilson and the Australian Journeys Gallery Development Team, National Museum . Justin is a Bible-believing Christian who grew up in a loving family. Both gay and straight people have gay and straight friends. Their humanity is not taken away by their sexual orientation, and a particular sin is not greater than the other- its sin committed by fallen people, you and I, in search of the grace and love of God. And sometimes there are several other letters added to the mix, like LGBTQTIAP (. He grew up a lot like Justin, but Jordan believes that acting on homosexual desires is a sin. The point is, there's no one-size-fits-all category for gay and lesbian people. Sometimes the English language demands it. I'm not a, I don't struggle with wanting to have sex with children. I purchased the kindle version of this book to screen it for my teenager, then ordered the paperback for her to read. Jordan thought. I support this author in the belief that same-sex attraction is okay, and that we should accept people for who they are, not just for what their attraction is compared to other people.It felt dangerous and hard reviewing this book. No one likes to feel like some "other" a subspecies to the human race. , File size I'm probably more pure than any other guy my age. Lots and lots of stories. They are "a distinctive way of sizing up gray area issues, analyzing them carefully, grappling with their full, human complexity, and thenand only thenmaking final decisions." in our conversation as a description of someone who is attracted to the same sex. I think this book displays a beautiful balance of showing love, but also conveying truth. But as we'll see, the discussion about homosexuality is much more complex than just a conversation about sex. Stories that make them sing, and stories that make them shudder with cold sweat. He could hardly say the words out loud in the safety of his car. Short enough to read in one day, yet covers so much information. Executives who see the world in stark contrasts miss the nuances of situations and are less able to compromise to meet common interests. This book was recommended by the lead pastor in my church; specifically to help children in the church navigate relationships that are not conventional. His mom wasn't domineering, his dad was around, his sisters didn't dress him up in pink, and he wasn't sexually abused. But I know many gay people who aren't having sex. One of the most important books for teens, Reviewed in the United States on August 17, 2020. Preston Sprinkle writes candidly and compassionately, and I think he walks the lovingly truthful and truthfully loving line well here. I hoped that picking up 'Living in a Gray World' may give me something new: a new understanding. May 18, 2021. As Jordan's story shows, focusing on truth with little compassion can actually damage other people who are made in God's image. Too often, the terms gay or homosexual are quickly followed by the word lifestyle, like in Jordan's conversation with his church leaders. Living In A Gray World - Theology in the raw 3 Aug. 2014 | Living In A Gray World Chris Sprinkle Purchase Book In today's world, the topic of homosexuality seems to be part of everyday conversation in the media, in politics, and even inside churches, with pressure to accept one view or the other. It goes like this: "Sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt me." Read "Living in a Gray World A Christian Teen's Guide to Understanding Homosexuality" by Zondervan available from Rakuten Kobo. And he does a very good job.He shows how the church as a whole has messed up in this area, and how (rarelysadly) the church has done it well. I am grateful that I came across this book. Which makes his message confusing cause its full of hey I love you, but I cant love or accept this one part of you. People to Be Loved: Why Homosexuality Is Not Just an Issue, Embodied: Transgender Identities, the Church, and What the Bible Has to Say. It's more or less a simpler version of his other book, but still good, and still focuses on loving others just as much as it focuses on what God expects of us. A great book for parents to read with their teens. They all have a unique set of experiences, joys and fears, things they hate and love, things that make them smile and other things that make them crazy mad. Some who believe in Jesus, and others who despise the Christian faith. In todays world, the topic of homosexuality seems to be part of everyday conversation in the media, in politics, and even inside churches, with pressure to accept one view or the other. Plenty of Great stuff. Chapters include What Does the Bible Say about Marriage? Gender, Transgender, and Intersex, and Homosexuality All Around Me where he tries to talk straight, providing an inquiry approach to answer questions he frequently receives. 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